Something I have been thinking about, pretty much since I started the blog, is whether or not to post photos of the kids, and to use their names. So far I have chosen not to. On my personal FB and Instagram pages I do, but here on the blog I have generally used photos that don’t show their faces, and referred to them as the Little Miss and the Little Mister. But is this thinking sensible caution or just a touch paranoid? Most of my favourite bloggers identify their kids either with their names or photos or both. And these are successful bloggers, with loads of people clearly knowing who they are.
I come from a professional background that no doubt contributes to my caution (ten plus years in child protection and working with vulnerable/at risk families). I’ve done a bit of reading around the web, and of course, found conflicting ideas on the subject. Some people feel that the children should be old enough to agree/disagree with their photos being posted. Some feel that there is a risk of predators accessing and misusing the images. Some have even suggested that in the future, other kids could use the images in cyber-bullying – particularly if they are embarrassing photos. I found this article and this one to be interesting reads on the topic.
I have to say I’m still undecided. It’s cumbersome, referring to the kids as the Little Miss and the Little Mister. And sometimes, I really want to share photos with you! Like here. Perhaps I’ll share the occasional photo and think on how to refer to them without too much identifying information.
What do you do? What do you think? I’d love to hear your thoughts on this!