• Coping with changes in parenting routine
    Family,  Parenting

    Hunker Down

    Popcorn and Movies

    This week, we’ve had to hunker down. The Mister has had to go overseas again this week for work, and the only way I can describe my coping process is: hunker down. Especially this week in Melbourne – until Thursday, it’s been cold and wet and grey. So we’ve been coping by watching movies with popcorn, some crazy dancing, baking and eating not so great food. Because at this point, when it’s me and the kids 24/7, and they don’t eat food at the best of times, it’s whatever’s easy. You want pasta with cheese? You got it. Seriously, I don’t know how my kids are growing and developing intelligence. I swear Mr 2 only eats white foods – oats, milk, pasta, cheese, bananas……

    Bunkering down.  Popcorn and movies.

    Thursday bought sunshine, and temperatures above 12 degrees. Yes! They’ve been in the backyard, and Ms 4 could play outside at kinder. So some of the crazy can be run out of their systems, and maybe tonight they will go to bed with less resistance – ha! Cheeky things know how to push it when there is only one person here!

    You may remember from this post, that my little ones luuuuurve to sneak into our bed at night. They’ve been better, but when it’s only me, I don’t have the energy to fight it once I’m asleep. So this week has seen lot’s of snuggles in the morning, and lots of edge of bed sleeping for me. For they surely cannot use the WHOLE EMPTY HALF of the bed that is free with The Mister away!!!! No, they must sleep attached to me at all times.

    Thankfully, he’ll be back on the weekend, and there are no more overseas trips planned for the year. How do you go when you’re normal parenting routine is thrown out of whack? Do you bunker down, or carry on as normal? Any tips, throw ’em at me!

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  • Toddler sleep
    Parenting,  Toddlers

    Sleeping on the edge

    Toddler sleep

    Monday night, Mr 2 decided that he was going to wake up at 3am and come into our bed.  Now, to be fair to him, the whole previous week The Mister had been away and I was not going to do the ‘sleeping in your own bed’ battle by myself.  So Mr 2 was used to just coming on in and sleeping on top of me.  Because why sleep on the other 3/4‘s of the bed when you can make sure mum is sleeping on the edge? 

    Suffice to say, he got a rude shock when he was gently guided back to his own bed at 3:00 am on Tuesday morning.  He did not handle it well.  And for the next two and half hours, did his best to ensure no one else in the house slept either.  He cried, he got out of bed continually, he kept heading up the hall to his sister’s room.  Often, he would be put back into bed, appear to settle for 10 minutes, and somehow sensing that I was just about to return to sleep – bam!  The pitter patter of little footsteps could be heard as he made his way to our door.  To say that he was less gently guided back to bed at this point would probably be an understatement.  I was not coping well with three hours sleep! 

    To add to the fun, Ms 4 had woken at roughly the same time due to a coughing fit that continued to annoy her for an hour or so.  She wasn’t asleep either.  In fact at one point, when Mr 2 was still in his room, yelling loudly, she suddenly appeared in our doorway, hands on hips and demanding “what’s all this racket about??”  If I wasn’t so exhausted and irritated it would have been adorable.  In fact I think it did manage to raise a small smile.  She was promptly sent back to bed, and exhausted, we gave in and bought Mr 2 to our bed.  Where he quickly fell into a deep and angelic slumber.  Faaaaaark!!!

    How do they always manage to have these terrible nights when you really need them to sleep early and well?!  We have kinder at 8.30 for Ms 4 on Tuesday’s.  We need to be up and at them in order for me to be only slightly late and disorganised.  So of course, the two cherubs would have slept until about 9 if I’d let them on Tuesday.  Any other day that would have been great! 

    Sleep and Mr 2 has been an ongoing battle for us.  Recently, it had seemed to be a lot smoother.  We put in some hard work (using the camping out method) and he was sleeping well in his cot, not crying for us to bring him to our bed.  Then after a little while we decided to take the side off his cot, whilst he seemed settled with his sleep, so that he didn’t think he needed to come out.  It was a theory.  A theory that seemed ok until routine changed and it all went out the window.  He had been going to bed and staying there, and only every now and again coming to our room.  Now, he fights bedtime and, well, please see above!  I know for some, kids in the bed are no big deal.  And I didn’t mind when he was smaller, but now, it just doesn’t work.  The Mister doesn’t sleep at all well and finds himself exhausted when doing the long drive to work.  So for us, it’s not something that suits us. 

    Now I could ask for your tips on sleeping, but really, I just want to know that I’m not the only one battling this!!  Do you have a toddler fighting to get in your bed?  I saw that Tegan over at Musings of the Misguided has some good tips for coming to terms with a kid who won’t go to sleep.

    *Update* For this week, the cot has been turned so that he can’t get out.  And we’ll be revisiting the camping out method 🙂 

  • Parenting Is So Worth It
    Family,  Parenting,  Uncategorized

    The Little Things

    Parenting Is So Worth ItThey melt my heart.  We’ve had a bit of a rough fortnight here.  Colds, conjunctivitis, teething, upset tummies and lots of little kids parties.  It all amounts to tired toddlers and ratty parents.  Perhaps even the other way around.  

    Blocked noses and bubba’s who suck their thumbs, do not equal good sleep.  Mr 15 months had just worked out the sleeping through the night thing, when wham! Blocked nose, cold, conjunctivitis and a back tooth trying to come through all happened at once.  Urgh.  So one night, when I had settled him back to sleep for the fourth time, all before 3am, Ms 3 woke up and wanted me to come into her room.  Usually she comes into our bed and goes to sleep.  But the Mister was also sick, and this just wasn’t working.  

    So in I trudge, thinking I was never going to see sleep again.  She lay there, looking up at me as I sat down, then she patted the pillow and said “you want to lie down with me?”.  Heart melted.  Thoughts of sleep no longer matter.  God I love her.  She is so adorable.  Then she says “can you sing me a beautiful song to help me sleep?”  Good lord.  Cuteness overload.  I don’t really sing, it’s not that soothing really, but she requested twinkle twinkle, so I sang that and she nearly fell asleep.  Wow, this might be a winner I thought.  Her eyes popped open and she smiled at me again.  “Lie down a little bit mummy.”  Ok.  Why not.  An hour later she finally fell asleep and I went back to my bed.  Not caring one jot that it was only an hour and half before I was likely to be woken again.  

    It’s the little things sometimes, that make parenting so worth it.