Sleeping on the edge

Toddler sleep

Monday night, Mr 2 decided that he was going to wake up at 3am and come into our bed.  Now, to be fair to him, the whole previous week The Mister had been away and I was not going to do the ‘sleeping in your own bed’ battle by myself.  So Mr 2 was used to just coming on in and sleeping on top of me.  Because why sleep on the other 3/4‘s of the bed when you can make sure mum is sleeping on the edge? 

Suffice to say, he got a rude shock when he was gently guided back to his own bed at 3:00 am on Tuesday morning.  He did not handle it well.  And for the next two and half hours, did his best to ensure no one else in the house slept either.  He cried, he got out of bed continually, he kept heading up the hall to his sister’s room.  Often, he would be put back into bed, appear to settle for 10 minutes, and somehow sensing that I was just about to return to sleep – bam!  The pitter patter of little footsteps could be heard as he made his way to our door.  To say that he was less gently guided back to bed at this point would probably be an understatement.  I was not coping well with three hours sleep! 

To add to the fun, Ms 4 had woken at roughly the same time due to a coughing fit that continued to annoy her for an hour or so.  She wasn’t asleep either.  In fact at one point, when Mr 2 was still in his room, yelling loudly, she suddenly appeared in our doorway, hands on hips and demanding “what’s all this racket about??”  If I wasn’t so exhausted and irritated it would have been adorable.  In fact I think it did manage to raise a small smile.  She was promptly sent back to bed, and exhausted, we gave in and bought Mr 2 to our bed.  Where he quickly fell into a deep and angelic slumber.  Faaaaaark!!!

How do they always manage to have these terrible nights when you really need them to sleep early and well?!  We have kinder at 8.30 for Ms 4 on Tuesday’s.  We need to be up and at them in order for me to be only slightly late and disorganised.  So of course, the two cherubs would have slept until about 9 if I’d let them on Tuesday.  Any other day that would have been great! 

Sleep and Mr 2 has been an ongoing battle for us.  Recently, it had seemed to be a lot smoother.  We put in some hard work (using the camping out method) and he was sleeping well in his cot, not crying for us to bring him to our bed.  Then after a little while we decided to take the side off his cot, whilst he seemed settled with his sleep, so that he didn’t think he needed to come out.  It was a theory.  A theory that seemed ok until routine changed and it all went out the window.  He had been going to bed and staying there, and only every now and again coming to our room.  Now, he fights bedtime and, well, please see above!  I know for some, kids in the bed are no big deal.  And I didn’t mind when he was smaller, but now, it just doesn’t work.  The Mister doesn’t sleep at all well and finds himself exhausted when doing the long drive to work.  So for us, it’s not something that suits us. 

Now I could ask for your tips on sleeping, but really, I just want to know that I’m not the only one battling this!!  Do you have a toddler fighting to get in your bed?  I saw that Tegan over at Musings of the Misguided has some good tips for coming to terms with a kid who won’t go to sleep.

*Update* For this week, the cot has been turned so that he can’t get out.  And we’ll be revisiting the camping out method 🙂 

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